Living Together as a Couple
The Supplementary Benefit Commission formulated a six point test of
whether an unmarried couple are to be treated as husband and wife, and
this test has been approved by the courts.
1. Members of the same household: The couple normally live together,
except for necessary absences for employment etc. Neither has any other
home where they normally live. If the partner is not a member of the
same household they cannot be cohabiting.
2. Stability: Living together implies more than an occasional or very
brief liaison. It is only relevant if the relationship is otherwise like
that of a husband and wife.
3. Financial support: One would expect to find financial support or
sharing of expenses.
4. Sexual relationship: This is an important and normal part of a
marriage, but the presence of such a relationship does not establish
cohabitation on its own.
A couple who refrained from sexual relations on principle, and a
couple who were within the prohibited degrees of relationship were held
not to be cohabiting. Although it is accepted that some married people
might not have a sexual relationship at any particular time it was held
that if a relationship was such that there was never any intention that
there should be a sexual relationship then it could not be like that of
a husband and wife.
If it is accepted that a couple are living together it still has to
be considered why they are doing so, and their intentions as to sex are
an important element in that consideration.
5. Children: If a couple have children together, or care for children
together, there is a strong presumption that they are cohabiting.
6. Public acknowledgement: The question of whether a couple hold
themselves out as married carries little weight in cases of dispute.
Butterworth v. SBC (1982) 1 All ER 498
Proof
The burden of proof if there is a dispute lies with the determining
authority.
The important question is often the intentions of the parties, but
this must generally be inferred "from what he or she does or says
at the relevant time".
R(SB)17/81
It has been held repeatedly that the six point test is only a guide,
and none of the ingredients of the test can be decisive.
R(SB)35/85